Ego vs Jealous vs Insecurity. What are they actually and their source?
I have been waiting for a while to plunge into this article intensely ever since I got this thought for two reasons.One,it would take me much deeper into comprehending my very own emotions.Two,during the process I may find untouched areas of my thought process. Fully excited.My intent is to define these emotions in my own way with accumulated experience over last 28 years,understand their source and then see if they are connected to each other in any way.Why only these three emotions? Because these are the emotions that hit me frequently creating bedlam internally and I know for sure people would look much more pretty if these three emotions are wielded well.I will not propagate ways to overcome these for three reasons
1)This is subject to each individual to decide.
2)I'm not a believer of making this world a a better place by preaching.I believe in making what is inside us,a better place.
3)It is really not necessary to overcome these,that would make us less human.It is sufficient enough to understand the source and handle them well with maturity.
Once we understand the source,we are a different person there after.
Instead of preaching,my intent is to tag you along with me and dive internally.Once we reach the core,it is up to you to collect what you wanted and figure out ways for effective handling.Let's dive now.
Let's begin this by defining in our own way.
Ego: A feeling of artificial superiority which can be manifested only on people we think inferior to us or of equal stature.
Jealous: A sudden burst of a feeling that the other is better than him/her or possess a thing which he/she doesn't have or better than what he/she have.
Insecurity: A feeling that sprouts when you think of future.
Let's scrutinize these definitions to comprehend which may open the doors to the source.Why ego is artificial superiority? Because of individual perception.It is not real.Why can't it be shown on people we think superior? It will be shown in other forms like disrespect,disobedience,negligence.Looks like we found a door here to the source of Ego.Ego is all about 'ME'.A phenomenon where mind is preoccupied cent percent with a bubble called 'ME'.With each day passing,the bubble bulges to occupy entire brain area only to eventually burst at once.The line between self esteem and ego is very thin.Quiet often,we confuse and pretense ego to self esteem.Usually,ego is usually manifested through facial expression.We defined jealous as sudden burst,why? Because it doesn't grow on its own.It bursts out with certain moments we come across in daily life.Jealous is manifested through ones eyes.We found another door here.Let's open.Jealous is all about 'WHY NOT ME'.Of all negative emotions,jealous is easy to control if we understand a simple logic.My guru taught me that each and every human gets what he/she deserves.PERIOD.We should be worried if the other takes something from us,otherwise our paths are parallel,they never cross.Why should we be worried when this is the case and make ourselves look less beautiful.Can we not turn this negative emotion to our advantage? When we take it as a challenge and put our efforts in attaining what others has,yes,it could be turned into our favor.The bubbles of sustained ego and jealous when burst and not addressed well will give rise to birth of insecurities.We found another door here.Let's open.Insecurity is all about 'WHAT HAPPENS TO ME'.Do we feel insecure only when we think of future? Think.Do you feel insecure thinking past or present? Thinking past either gives pleasure or depression.Thinking present gives peace.Thinking future leads to either hope or insecurity.Insecurity often gets manifested through ones body language in the form of anxiety and other various ways of chain reactions.Insecurity puts us to defense.It shuts off the creative thinking.When not rightly fought,it gradually corners us to a shell and commands us to live with in that shell.Sustained insecurities leads to bad programming of the brain which forms habits which eventually start causing dents to ones personality.
Now that,we know the source of these negative emotions,it is up to you to device a strategy to combat them in your own way.
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